During snack-time today, one of my students mentioned that his wife said she didn't want to dance anymore. He was rather forlorn over this and grieving to some of his friends. "She said she just doesn't want to dance anymore", he said. "I really like dancing but I can't dance without her, so I guess that's that". One of the other men suggested she might change her mind--he said his wife often did--but K didn't think so.
I've never met his wife. Perhaps she said this months ago and it just came up today; perhaps she has arthritis and it hurts too much to dance. At any rate, there was not much i could offer by means of consolation. I asked him what kind of dancing they used to do: mostly ballroom, he said. He's right--that is a style in which it is difficult to change partners. It's not like going square or line dancing.
I enjoy (tame) ballroom dancing very much--it's about music and love and communication and partnership--and i can't imagine what i'd feel if i had a life-long dancing partner who didn't want to dance [with me] anymore someday. I hope i never do something like that to whoever he may be...
...just like i hope i lose the ability to speak rather than become an old lady who randomly swears at people in the hallway.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
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birding life list (in process!)
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